NO BODY IS A LOSER IN LIFE.

 

A TOUCHING STORY THAT LEFT A LASTING IMPACT IN MY  HEART. ….

THE LESSONS DISTILLED FROM MY STORY ARE; LIFE CHANGING LESSONS.

1. LIFE IS FULL OF SURPRISES

2. ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD AND LIFE IS FLIP SIDED WITH DIFFERENT SLICES.

3. IN LIFE, WE SHOULD NOT BE OVER CONFIDENT OF OURSELVES.  NO BODY IS DULL. THE DULLEST CAN BE THE MOST SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE. IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT ACADEMICS, BEING FIRST POSITION IN CLASS BUT DEVELOPING OUR SOFT SKILLS SUCH AS

         -HONESTY

         -HARDWORK/DILIGENCE

          -DETERMINATION

            - RESILIENCE

            -  RE-INVENTION

             -  BE ADAPTABLE

             - COMMERCIAL AWARENESS

             - BUSINESS MINDED

WHETHER YOUR PARENTS ARE POOR OR RICH, JUST BE YOUR SELF.  STATUS IN LIFE IS NOT A DETERMINANT OF YOUR FUTURE. IRRESPECTIVE OF YOUR SOCIAL ECONOMIC STATUS IN LIFE/YOUR FAMILY BACKGROUND, A TWIST OF LIFE CAN EITHER BE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE AND OCCUR ANYTIME ANYDAY.                                            

     SHOULD YOU COME FROM A RICH HOME, PLEASE STAY FOCUSED. YOUR PARENT'S WEALTH WILL NOT BE FOR EVER . GOD FORBID YOU LOOSE EITHER OR BOTH PARENTS IN LIFE,YOUR DETERMINATION WILL SUSTAIN YOUR DREAMS.

     POOR HOMES CAN BREED GOOD AND  DETERMINED CHILDREN. FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS WITH ACTIONS. KEEP THE RIGHT COMPANY, DO NOT MOVE WITH EVIL FRIENDS AND STAY FOCUSED. PEER PRESSURE CAN MAKE A RICH CHILD TO ENGAGE IN SOCAL VICES LIKE SMOKING INDIA HEMP, TAKING HARD DRUGS LIKE COCAINE AND DRINKING ALCOHOL.

    YOU MUST MAINTAIN A GOOD TEMPO IF YOU WERE TOPS IN SECONDARY SCHOOL. PLEASE, MAINTAIN THE TRACK BY STAYING BEING DISICIPLINE AND VERY HARD WORKING AND PRAYERFUL.GOD IS THE ULTIMATE, BE GODLY. YOU MAY HAVE BEEN DULL,KNOW THIS AND DECIDE TO CHANGE YOUR  COURSE FOR GOOD.PULL OFF THE DRESS OF DULLNESS,LAZINESS,COMPLACENCY,PROCRASTINATION  FEAR, DISCOURAGEMENT AND HAVING NO DRIVE AND THEN FOLLOWING BAD COMPANY CAN RESULT TO FAILURE. AVOID ALL THAT CAN LEAD TO FAILURE. SHOULD YOU BE LIKE THAT LAZY ONE. DONT BE PROUD, DONT BE OVER CONFIDENT AND NEVER FOLLOW BAD GANGS. TRY TO HAVE A GOOD CHARACTER AND ENDEAVOUR TO DEVELOP A GOOD ATTITUDE.

DEVELOP A GOOD ATTITUDE AND INVEST IN YOUR SKILL DEVELOPMENT,FOLLOW YOUR PASSION AND BELIEVE IN YOUR SELF . NO BODY IS A LOSER IN LIFE. I CAN SUCCEED, IF ONLY I WANT TO SUCCEED, IT ALL DEPENDS ON ME.

 MY  LIFE IS IN MY HANDS. I WILL NOT LOOK DOWN ON ANY BODY. I WILL ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TO ACHIEVE THEIR DREAMS. NO BODY IS A FAILURE. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND BE THE BEST OF WHO YOU ARE.

 A BRILLIANT BOY IN SCHOOL BACK THEN IN THE DAYS "GBENGA", IS NOW A BUS CONDUCTOR:  IT IS POSSIBLE THAT ONE DERAILS AND LATER BECOME A STREET BOY, LIVE UNDER THE BRIDGE AND LATER BECOME A BUS CONDUCTOR. YES, YOU MAY HAVE BEEN THE BEST IN THE CLASS THEN BUT IF YOU DO NOT FOLLOW UP. YOU CAN NOT RE-INVENT YOURSELF AND CAN NOT SUSTAIN YOURSELF AND YOUR INTELLIGENCE. YOU MAY LOOSE TRACK.   THE DULLEST BOY WILL BECOME FOCUSED AFTER SCHOOL. HE WILL RE-INVENT HIMSELF, RE-TRACE HIS FOOTSTEPS, FOLLOW THROUGH WITH HIS GOALS IN LIFE, DETERMINED, HONEST AND HARDWORKING. DO NOT LOOK DOWN ON YOURSELF. REALISE YOUR MISTAKES, FOLLOW UP WITH YOUR GOAL, ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS AND BECOME A HUGE SUCCESS TO YOURSELF.IN LIFE, NO ONE IS A FAILURE. NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU FALL, GET UP AND KEEP MOVING UNTIL YOU GET TO YOUR DESTINATION. DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED. REMEMBER… NO ONE IS A LOSER.

A TOUCHING STORY I WAS TOLD THAT LEFT A LASTING IMPACT IN MY LIFE.

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Queeneth is a welding Engineer,with a PhD in industrial engineering.she was born 5th July.Queeneth isa registered engineer with COREN Nigeria and a member of Nigerian Society of Engineers NSE, a member of Nigerian Institution of Safety Engineers NiSafetyE , a memberof Association of Professional Women Engineers of Nigeria APWEN . a member of Nigerian Institution of Mechanical Engineers NiMechE and a lecturer in Igbinedion University Okada ,Okada Town Edo State Nigeria and happily married to a Professor of Sociology Psychology and Globalization & Development.she is a prolific writer in diverse areas such as child care,educating the girl child to read Engineering, Marriage issues, dysfunctional homes, Team skills,Technoprenueral Engineering for Girls, Softskills for Professionals,Ethics in Engineering Education....etc. Queeneth is a teacher.she teaches Engineer in Society, Research methods and report writing, Engineering Statistics,Control Engineering and Manufacturing technology.e.t.c.