Typically people have an either or mindset which inevitably leads to suboptimal solutions, and under satisfying compromises. By switching to the both and mindset you can become more successful and paradoxically create greater clarity and balance in your life.

Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes has a few sideways thrown in too. When things go wrong or donít go as planned, or when something happens to throw us off balance and doubt ourselves it can be tough to deal with. After all, we all want things to go well and to end up as ëwinnersí. But life will always throw challenges at us, and we canít control everything. Nor should we try. Itís not what happens to you but what you do with what happens to you that makes the differ...