Lack of confidence in yourself can lead you to several things, from depression to not trusting in yourself... but am here to help you because I have been in that situation.
I was born fat, I wasn't ugly but my plus size make me feel like I was abnormally different, people don't laugh at me or abuse me, I abuse myself by staying away from people, not engaging in social activities because I don't want to be laughed at, all my search engine was filled with "how to lose weight in 7 days" and so on...
My highschool was terrible because I wasn't confident in my body or my abilities, the only thing I agreed to was the fact that I was intelligent, I let my emotions dictate my lifestyle, I allowed my physical appearance to kill my confidence.. i was like that until 2 years after highschool.
I was at my friend's birthday party, I couldn't dodge the party though, so I went there in my best clothes which was baggy as usual to hide my tummy, I saw one young girl definitely same age with me, she was fatter than me, but she was all over the place dancing and greeting people, her courage and ability to mingle with people moved me, since then I put efforts on loving myself, accepting my appearance and that was the key to my breakthrough...my peace of mind was incredible for o have loved all of me and accepted my imperfections...
And I believe you too can do it, in so many situations you have doubted yourself, you believe you can't do it or you can't do it well enough, but am telling you today " you can never know what you can do until you try"....give it a try and test your abilities, you will be shocked on the things you are able to achieve....there is only one life for everyone, and it's never complete if you never make mistakes...it's normal to make mistakes but it's wise to learn from them and adjust certain things....
Stop thinking about what people will say or their reactions. It will only kill your confidence and courage and fill you with doubts, and nothing kills more than lack of confidence and trust in oneself...
Thank you...
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